A little humility is good for the (writer’s) soul

There seems to be this general conception of writers as confident creatures with larger-than-life egos (think Richard Castle, from Castle).

Those of us who actually are writers know, of course, that such raging egos can easily mask a raging sense of insecurity.

And while I believe we all need to have faith in our ideas, occasional insecurity isn’t such a bad thing, especially if it motivates us to learn more about our craft.

Sometimes I find myself skimming over new posts on writing, thinking to myself, “Yeah, I got this–I already know this.” This reaction, I think, is dangerous–to anyone, but particularly for writers. In my case, while I’ve relatively recently reconverted to the fiction writing of my youth, I do have lots of experience with reading and writing: a PhD in English and more than ten years teaching writing classes. It’s easy for me to think I know what I need to know, when, in fact, if I did know all that, I’d already have a book contract.

Even for experienced authors, it’s important to keep learning, to keep challenging oneself as a writer and a thinker. Otherwise our writing stagnates.

My new challenge, particularly as I’m heading to a writer’s conference later this week, is to try to keep an open mind about my craft. You never know–I might just learn something!

 
What kinds of writing advice have you been surprised by? Have you ever come across good advice in an unexpected place?